Hey man, I'll tell you exactly what you need to do to make your wife like giving you oral sex. First, the question is - why is it that she doesn't like giving you oral right now? Here are a couple of reasons that are stopping your wife from giving you oral: 1. You are an animal, and when she gives you oral you RAM it down her throat like a raging bull. Stop doing that, it makes her puke. She can't deep throat, yet. 2. You're just too hairy. Hey, it's not easy to give oral to a dude when pubic hair is staying in her tongue and between her teeth all the time. So go shave, shit and shower. It will help you get more oral from your wife. 3. She's really bad at it. She's bad at giving oral, and she knows it. So she doesn't want to humiliate herself in front of you. That might be the case but probably isn't. 4. She thinks that giving you oral sex isn't worth the effort. Her "Blow job ROI" is just not worth it. So she doesn't want to invest in that "share." More on that later. If your wife ever gave you oral sex in the past, and then stopped once you got married, or somewhere along the years, it's probably because of reason #4. You became BORING and probably lazy to please her back. She doesn't see the benefit of giving you oral. The "Why?" or "What's in it for me?" just isn't big enough. There's no such thing as a free lunch. Sure, some women love giving oral to their guy, but they love it for a REASON. Here are a couple of reasons why women like giving oral: 1. It makes them feel powerful to give oral sex to a powerful man. If you've got power, you get more oral sex. It's a fact. I could prove it to you with a mathematical calculation. 2. If she LOVES this guy and wants to make sure that he doesn't look for oral sex somewhere else. 3. If she's a natural "pleaser" and loves "serving" other people, giving makes her feel good about herself. 4. She is really good at it, and people like doing what they are good at. Especially if it makes you love her back for it. So, how do you use this information to your advantage? And how do you get your wife to like giving you oral, and stop doing it out of a "chore" or as a "job" on your anniversary? 1. Become more powerful. Work on yourself to become great at something. Make more money, do whatever you can to become more self-confident. This will make you more attractive to other women, which will also make you more attractive to your wife. Which will make her feel insecure and she'll want to give you oral sex out of fear of losing you. 2. Work out. Women prefer giving oral sex to a guy that's fit than to a 300 pound pig. Lose the stomach. It will get you more oral sex, and you'll feel better about yourself. Don't be lazy. 3. Eat her out. Better than ever. It's the rule of reciprocity, if you eat her out like a champ, she'll feel obliged to "pay you back." Don't expect to get anything if you give non, especially if what you give is worse than what she can get on average from any other guy.